9 Ways to Find Out the Things Your Boyfriend is Unhappy With, But Won’t Tell You

9. Give him a reason to help you improve: “I want to be less childish.”

“I can tell her everything I’ve been holding back. (laugh)” With this method, you let him know that the reason for expressing his unhappiness is to help you. When he tells you his complaints, let him know you understand, and that you appreciate his honesty. This will make it easier for him to be open with you in future.