9 Ways to Find Out the Things Your Boyfriend is Unhappy With, But Won’t Tell You

3. Show him you’re concerned: “Are you sure you’re not just being nice?”

“I know it’s because she cares about me, so there’s no bad feeling.” Treat your boyfriend with respect and show your support, and he may let you in on his true thoughts. If you’re showing him you don’t want him to suffer for the sake of being kind, he’ll be able to speak openly with you.