9 Ways to Find Out the Things Your Boyfriend is Unhappy With, But Won’t Tell You

6. Show him it’s affecting you, too: “I’m sad you won’t tell me how you really feel…”

“I’d think that ‘If you really feel that way, then I’ll share my feelings with you.’” This method will touch your boyfriend’s emotions and get him to speak his mind. By tagging on something like, “It’s not really healthy if we have to hide how we feel all the time,” he’ll be even more likely to share his thoughts with you.