3. Imposing a rule that he has to send messages or call to report to you
“If you decide on some rule like ‘at least 3 messages per day,’ the relationship’s not any fun any more,” said one guy. If you try to control your boyfriend too much, it can make phone calls and messages seem like an obligation. If you want him to keep in touch every day, try a slightly affectionate approach like, “I’d like to hear your voice again tomorrow.”