9 Things that Get Guys Discouraged during Long-Distance Relationships

2. Getting mad if he doesn’t come to see you frequently


“If you really want to see him that badly, why don’t you go yourself? Making no effort on your own just isn’t right,” said one guy. Assuming that he should always come to you can make guys feel like the relationship is unfair. If you’re feeling lonely, try asking “Can I come see you?” At least being proactive about it will help him see you in a better light.