7. Hinting at cheating to try and get more attention
“You’re both adults, so just stop being so immature,” said one guy. Trying to get his attention by saying you’ll cheat comes across as childish to some guys. That kind of behavior can make you seem very unattractive. If you tell him honestly that you’re lonely, want to see him, or disappointed about something, that will give him a better sense of how you really feel.