4. Searching his room while your boyfriend is out with friends
“If he finds out you were searching around in there, that’ll be a big turnoff. He might not have any feelings for you anymore after that,” said one guy. If you let your anxiety take over and start looking for clues to see if he’s cheating, that can completely ruin your boyfriend’s enjoyment of the visit. Don’t do something like this unless you already have a strong suspicion he’s hiding something from you.