“He is a wonderful person but nit-picky about everything.” Does this sound like your boyfriend? It’s not easy to change his habits or characteristics, so it is better for you to learn how to deal with it. Don’t get frustrated by his lengthy monologues. We discovered how other women are handling the situation. Here are 9 tactful comments to avoid getting sucked into a lengthy debate.
1. “Definitely.” “I agree.” Constantly nod and give your feedback to validate his point.
Take the upper hand. Appear to be listening but let the conversation wash over you. Don’t let him realize that your mind is focused on something else. Look into his eyes, smile, and give valid feedback. He will be happy, thinking that you are interested in what he has to say.