“Why are you crying?” 9 Times Men Do Not Understand Your Tears

“Tears are women’s secret weapon.” If you blindly believe in this saying, you may be shedding tears too often in front of him. Unless you are auditioning for a role in a play, making your tears flow like an open faucet will give you a bad rep. Today, based on a survey we conducted with 191 male readers, we introduce nine times men feel clueless about why you’re crying.

1. You were lectured at work so you cry your eyes out

“What are you, a five-year-old?! If you have the time to cry, work harder so you don’t make the same mistake again!” You are an adult, so even if you find the criticism unreasonable, hold back your tears and logically and diplomatically explain your position. Tears and the workplace do not mix.