No one thinks about the future as emotions are intensifying and they’re deciding to deepen the relationship. But it’s surprisingly common for women to feel uneasy about their new relationship and think, “This is not what I thought I was getting myself into!” This time, we surveyed women to discuss their boyfriend’s troubling future plans, which they only learn about after getting into the relationship.
1. He told her the relationship would have to be long-distance: “I’m planning to study abroad in the fall.”
“He told me when we were in our honeymoon phase and it killed my happy mood.” Women feel crushed when they realize they’re going to end up in a long-distance relationship. If you are truly in love with your boyfriend, do your best to maintain the excitement by saying, “We’ll make it work!”