5 Great Girlfriends Who Are Not Wife Material

2. You are unique, but too eccentric.

“I don’t mind going out with a woman with distinctive style. I’m sure it’ll be interesting to experience the other end of the spectrum. Still, for marriage, I want someone ordinary and predictable,” a man in his 20s explains. Just because you can offer a dramatic relationship, unlike any other he has experienced, that does not necessarily mean that you’ll make a good partner. If you tend to chase after a relationship as if you were in a romantic movie, you need to stop and be more realistic.