“She’s Perfect for a Bit of Fun on the Side…” 9 Traits of Women who Guys Keep Around as Their Backup Plan

5. She’s not particularly beautiful, but she is quite experienced

“I don’t think she expects much from me anyway.” When you pretend to be a “grown woman,” guys come to the conclusion that you don’t need them to pay attention to you. It’s healthy to open up to each other when you are in a relationship, instead of constantly acting cool and detached.