“She’s Perfect for a Bit of Fun on the Side…” 9 Traits of Women who Guys Keep Around as Their Backup Plan

4. She’s outspoken and she laughs at dirty jokes

“She’s fun to talk to, but she’s too crude. I don’t see her as a girlfriend material.” When women make witty comebacks to suggestive comments and smutty humor, guys find them entertaining but coarse. It’s good to be modest if you want him to cherish you.