9 BDSM Moves Boyfriends Should Never Do

Some people have unusual sexual fantasies, so they need to make sure their partners have the same fantasies. However, some guys don’t think about that. Sometimes a guy can seem perfect, but you’re disappointed by how he acts in bed. We surveyed our female readers in their 20s and 30s to bring you nine BDSM moves boyfriends should never do.

1. Spanking her with a BDSM whip

“It’s far from pleasurable, and it hurts.” Some girls just play along with this even though it hurts. If your man is dominant, try suggesting that you switch it up so you can try being dominant instead. After experiencing the pain firsthand, he may not spank you so hard.