9 Phrases for Turning down Sex Without Hurting His Ego

8. Say “I have to wake up early tomorrow, so let’s just kiss” and show him affection through kissing


“If she wants to kiss me, then that’s okay with me.” Many men still think kissing is a special sign of affection. Kissing too passionately may turn him on too much, so be sure not to let things heat up to the point of no return.