9 Phrases for Turning down Sex Without Hurting His Ego

2. Say “We’re on a deadline at work…” and tell him you’re tired


Given a reasonable explanation, most men will be understanding. Without a good reason, though, some men will question just how tired you really are. Some men may misinterpret “I’m tired” as “I can’t be bothered,” so be sure to give him a well-rounded explanation to avoid any misunderstandings.