3. “I’ll take care of everything—you don’t need to pay for a thing.” What’s the catch?
“She said that everything is taken care of. The more I think about it, the more it sounds like an invitation to a new religious cult or a multi-level sales meeting,” explains a suspicious man in his early 20s. Just because you want to make things more enticing for him to go on a date with you, offering too much will only seed doubt in his mind. Even if you’re generally an enabler, you don’t want to start a new relationship on uneven ground. Try to act more confident in yourself.