2. “Would you like to go on a date in secret?” Sneaking around people.
“There’s nothing wrong with going out on a date, and I don’t understand why she wants to sneak around behind people’s back. I already smell trouble,” says a cautious man in his late 20s. Whatever your reason may be, it’s puzzling to him that you want to be so secretive. If you feel bashful about asking a guy out, or if you’re worried about possible rejection, you should share your concern with him and ask to meet in confidence for the first date.