9 Things You Can Say to Encourage Your Boyfriend If He’s Worried About His New Job

3. Show him there’s hope: “Once you start, you’ll probably find you enjoy it!”


“If she acted like she actually quite envied my job, I’d probably feel a bit better about it. (laugh)” Drawing his attention to the positive aspects of the job can be effective. Instead of serious subjects like motivation, try cheering him up with positive topics, like year-end bonuses and making friends with colleagues.