9 Things You Can Say to Encourage Your Boyfriend If He’s Worried About His New Job

4. Show no mercy: “Aw, your life is so tough, isn’t it!”


“She was a bit cool about it, and I realized I had to stop complaining so much.” You can always respond bluntly, if you think it’s what your guy really needs to hear. But he may be hurt and feel you don’t care about him, so it’s worth judging his reaction and softening the blow if necessary.