9 Things You Can Say to Encourage Your Boyfriend If He’s Worried About His New Job

9. Scold him dramatically: “Stop whining and get it together!”


“She was scary! But I’m grateful she helped me pull myself together.” Another effective tactic is to get your partner to change his behavior with a well-aimed rebuke. Deliver the blow after first listening to what he has to say, and he’ll know you’re not just yelling because you don’t want to listen.