9 Signs He’s Only Interested in Sex

3. He’s rough and only wants to do it the way he likes

“There’s a difference between passionate rough sex with love, and just plain rough and aggressive sex.” If he’s going rough just for the sake of it, he might not be valuing you. Ask him to go gently with you for a change; if he continues to go rough, it might be time to stop sleeping with him and move on.