6. “I’m all ears if you need someone to talk to.”
“I don’t feel like I have to act tough in front of her. I can tell her anything and can even have a good moan about things.” His stress levels are rising and he needs a pressure release valve. You offer to lend your ear and that gives him an opportunity to open up. Don’t forget you offered your listening ears and not your opinions. Even if you disagree with what he tells you, don’t give out advice until he is completely calm and can process it.