9 Traits of Women Who Are Always Approached by Guys but Somehow End up as Their “Backup” Option

2. She flirts with everyone because she wants to be popular

“I’m sure she is nice to everyone.” When you try to be everyone’s favorite, guys don’t think about dating you seriously because “you can always go with someone else.” Let your crush know that he’s special by saying something like, “You are the only one I can open up to,” and make sure he doesn’t think you are flirting with everyone.