9 Traits of Women Who Are Always Approached by Guys but Somehow End up as Their “Backup” Option

3. She clearly goes for guys who are good-looking and wealthy

“She doesn’t like me. She thinks she can get something from me.” When women are too focused on these kinds of criteria, guys judge that they want money, not love. If you happen to like a guy who is good-looking and wealthy, tell him that you didn’t choose him because of that. You can say something like, “I like how loyal you are.”