9 Traits of Women Who Are Always Approached by Guys but Somehow End up as Their “Backup” Option

8. She adjusts the way she dresses according to a guy’s preference because she doesn’t have her own sense of “self”

“It’s so easy because I can take control. She’s really into me.” Guys look down on women who suppress their individuality to win a guy’s affection, because “they don’t have to worry about keeping her interested.” Remember that guys like to chase women whom they cannot quite control.