9 Ways of Saying Goodbye When You Want to Keep the Break-up Amicable

9. Don’t get mad, overly emotional, or raise your voice


“If I get emotional, it will just make him emotional too.” When talking about ending a relationship, things can become intense, but it’s not good to get angry or cry. It is important to remain calm in order to have a proper conversation, all the way to the end.

No matter how prepared you are, this is a tough conversation for both people involved. But if you are the one deciding to break up, considering his feelings and taking care not to hurt him may be your final act of kindness as his girlfriend. Do everything you can in order for both parties to agree that the relationship has ended.