9 Ways of Saying Goodbye When You Want to Keep the Break-up Amicable

7. Let your boyfriend know and understand, in gentle terms, his “bad points”

“I give a proper explanation about why I want to break up.” Communicating only your desire to break up will only cause arguments if he doesn’t agree. To avoid a fight, try wrapping up your argument in kinder words, while still giving a clear picture of the reasons for your decision.