4. Don’t ask him if he’s cheating on you.
It’s understandable that you’d be concerned about him cheating on you, but when has it ever been a good idea to ask the same question over and over, which you know will not be answered directly? “She’s always doubting me and I’m starting to wonder if she’ll ever trust me,” admits a man in his 20s. Asking him if he’s cheating can have an adverse effect. You should consider the question as a last resort, and only if you feel your relationship is failing. Even if you’re dying to ask him the question, take a deep breath and tell him, “I’m so fortunate that I don’t have to worry about you ever cheating on me.” He may start to think that he’d be daft to betray such a wonderful girlfriend. It’s reverse-psychology.