9 Traumatic Memories of a Painful First Love

4. I chose my first love by looks and failed miserably.


“After that experience, I hesitate to talk to guys, even when I see someone who fits my type. I lost a couple of great opportunities because of that.” Because you trusted your first impression and failed wretchedly, you started to doubt your instincts. There is a simple solution to this. If you get a good impression about someone, talk to him. Take time to know him before you decide whether he is the right man for you.