9 Traumatic Memories of a Painful First Love

9. I was deeply in love with my ex.

“The whole breakup was too traumatic for me, and I don’t believe in fate anymore.” Breakups are never easy, and it takes a long time for some to recover. If you happen to find a new guy again, don’t just fall in love right away. Rather, enjoy the process of falling in love, and build the relationship step by step to develop a steady and stable future together.