6. She says something that makes us seem physically incompatible: “The way you eat is disgusting, and I’m sick of it.”
“I feel like she’s invalidating my entire existence.” If you point out negative feelings that aren’t based on anything logical, it can be really hurtful for your boyfriend. Once you’ve said something like this, it ruins the atmosphere from then on whenever you go out to a restaurant together. If you speak without thinking in the heat of the moment, you might regret it later.