9 Things Girls Say during Fights That Cause Lasting Pain for Their Boyfriends

3. She says I have no future: “You’re so closed-minded that no matter what you do, you’ll never amount to anything.”

“This doesn’t really affect my relationship as much as it makes me question my worth as a human being.” This kind of thing is especially rough on guys who struggle with an inferiority complex and stress every day. Hearing that he’s closed-minded can be especially damaging to a guy’s self-confidence, so you should avoid making this kind of statement for the sake of your boyfriend’s future.