9 Youthful Actions to Regret: “If I Knew Then What I Know Now, We Could Have Avoided Breaking Up.”

4. I was “needy,” always calling or texting, with no regard for his schedule

“I would send him so many emails throughout the day…” When you constantly want assurances of his love, it can feel like dead weight to him. It could be better to just tell him your honest feelings – “I just love you so much I’m always worried.” Then he might contact you more frequently, because he doesn’t want you to feel insecure.