9 Youthful Actions to Regret: “If I Knew Then What I Know Now, We Could Have Avoided Breaking Up.”

7. I was “over-reliant,” depending on my boyfriend for everything

“Why was I so insecure without him?” If a girl is overly dependent on her boyfriend and has to always be with him, it can tire him out, and cause him to eventually leave. When dating, it’s important to have an appropriate sense of independence on both sides, so that you don’t disrupt your normal everyday lives.