2. When she patiently listened to his problems and troubles.
“I was at rock-bottom, and she listened to it all without questioning me. I suddenly felt that I needed her in my life,” recalls a man in his late 20s. Everyone goes through some rough patches, and you being there for him by his side proves to be more valuable than anything else in his life. Even if you find a flaw in his story, be patient, and let him finish what he has to say before you offer up any thoughts or advice.