9 Excessive Demands that Make Your Boyfriend Think You’re Too Controlling

Every girl has things they want their boyfriend to do for them precisely because they have such strong feelings for him. Really though, even if you intend it as an expression of love, make sure you’re not being too demanding. We surveyed some guys, and in this installment, we’ll share some excessive demands that make your boyfriend think you’re too controlling.

1. Demanding contact at a certain frequency


“Even if she says, ‘That’s totally normal when you’re dating,’ I can’t stand getting ordered around like that.” For a lot of guys, when calling or sending messages becomes a duty, it stops being fun and turns into an annoyance. If you want to communicate frequently with your boyfriend, try initiating things yourself as much as possible. That way you can set the pace, and your boyfriend will probably follow your lead.