9 Excessive Demands that Make Your Boyfriend Think You’re Too Controlling

4. Getting sulky when you don’t respond to messages


“It’s tiring being with a girl who has a victim complex.” Getting upset when he doesn’t respond might be cute at first, but it’ll become annoying for your boyfriend before long. If your messages show up as read but he doesn’t reply, keep calm and think, “I guess he can’t write back right now.”