4. When her boyfriend cheats, a committed girlfriend will make it clear that he won’t get a second chance, while a needy girlfriend will get upset and ask if there’s something wrong with her.
Losing your composure when finding out that your boyfriend cheated will make you appear needy. “I know it’s my fault that I cheated, but I would break up with my girlfriend if she got hysterical,” stated a teen. If you’re not planning on leaving him, it’s better to accept that you cannot change what has already happened, and discuss things from there.