5 Ways to Approach Your Crush After He’s Been Heartbroken

4. Emphasize that a heartbreak helps people grow.

Flatter your crush by telling him he’s emotionally mature, because he can now relate to other people’s pain through his own experience. “This is true. Popular guys will not understand this kind of pain,” a guy in his 20s commented. You could even take advantage of the situation and tell your crush that you are attracted to guys like that.