9 Instant Messages from a Girlfriend that Lead to Making Up after a Fight

5. ”Because an instant message can’t express my thoughts well, can I call you?” shows your desire to fix things


“It made me feel like she doesn’t want to keep fighting and wants to quickly go back to how things were.” It appears that taking a step toward resolving things can make your boyfriend forward thinking, too. Because there can be misunderstandings with messages, talking face to face is even better.