9 Excuses Guys Come up with when They Have A Girlfriend But Still Meet Up with Other Girls

5. He rediscovers his girlfriend’s charm when he hangs out with other women

“I realize that my girlfriend is the one for me.” In this case, he just wants to rediscover your charm. It sounds like a very convenient excuse, but it’s up to you to decide if you are okay with this. But remember, it’s pretty much a certainty that he will come back to you in the end.