9 Things Your Man Secretly Does Not Want You to Do or Say the First Time

2. Dripping spit on his thing during a hand job


Apparently, men think that this is a technique used by prostitutes or porn stars, so there’s a chance they will suspect you of having a dark, secret past. Rather than drooling all over him, it might be best to take turns with your mouth and hand, which will keep him slippery but not completely soaked.