9 Blatant Requests That Drive Men Away

6. You send an e-mail or leave a note asking for help.


“Cute paper doesn’t help! A note is a note and it’s still rude.” While it may feel more convenient to send an e-mail or leave a note to ask for help, for him, it istill means you are leaning on him for assistance. When asking for help, try not to rely on “one-way” delivery. It is only fair to give him an opportunity to say no.