2. “Would you mind helping me?” You ask for his help but make no effort yourself.
“She doesn’t even try to pretend that she is working.” You asked for his “help,” not for him to take over your work. Of course he wouldn’t be happy about the unfair arrangement. Even if you’re drowning in work, there are many ways to show your willingness to share the load. Be his assistant or offer refreshments. Be readily available.