4. They conclude that you are cheap and even dishonest when you recount stories of cheating and being cheated on
“That kind of makes me biased.” Whether you were the one who cheated or were cheated on, recounting stories of unfaithfulness is not appropriate. It’s unacceptable to cheat on someone, and even if you were the victim, people start to wonder why you were cheated on. This only makes you less popular.