9. They think you are unlucky when you complain about how much you’ve given
“That’s heavy and dark. It makes me negative when she talks about it for a long time.” Your guy friends may think you’re holding a grudge a little too long when you lament about how much you had to endure with your ex. Rather than trying to get them to empathize with your stories, think about showing them how much you have grown by overcoming the hardships.