9 Types of Rules Girls Make to Avoid Relationship-Ending Fights

9. Before you bottle everything up and keep it to yourself, actually tell him straight out what’s on your mind.

“I think if you have the kind of relationship where you can both speak your mind, there’s no reason for you to fight.” If you both share your true feelings regularly, a simple fight is unlikely to be the end of your relationship. Don’t make it a one-sided thing where you just unload on him all the time, though. Try to listen to his side of things too, and make sure to tell him everything is okay by saying something like, “You can talk to me about anything.”