2. Acknowledge your boyfriend’s feelings, and calmly tell him what you will do differently in the future
“If we are able deal with an issue rationally without getting overly emotional, then I am very likely to go along with whatever she says.” Try legitimizing your boyfriend’s concerns and telling him what you think you can do to improve. When arguing with men, it is important to try to resist making emotional outbursts. Stay calm and choose your words so that both of you understand each other.