7 Patterns of Behavior that Make Men Think, “Well, that’s why you can’t get a boyfriend.”

You might ask, “Why can’t I get a boyfriend?” But not too many people will give you a straight answer. And so, we asked Sugoren’s male readers to give their honest opinions about when they feel the need to tell a girl, “That’s why you can’t get a boyfriend.”

1. When a girl gets too excited about how cool a male celebrity or manga character is.

“It makes her seem like too much of a dreamer, and that her ideals are too high and unrealistic,” says a male in his teens. When a guy sees a girl getting too excited talking about a type of man whom she has no chance of ever meeting in real life, it can make him think, “She’s never going to get a boyfriend.”